My family asked me what I wanted for my birthday. Most people would enjoy hearing that question, but for some reason I did not. A stress came over me around the need to think of things I would want for my birthday.

Why would I not enjoy hearing this question?

How could there not be things I want?

As I tried to come up with things I might want for my birthday, I realized how silly I was being. I have everything I need, and apparently I have everything I want. Why should I be asking for things I might want, when there are many people in our area who NEED things.

What is a birthday present intended to do?

I believe it is to bring joy to someone. It is an opportunity to show someone you care about them.

If I were to receive some gifts I might want, it might bring me joy. If I were to receive gifts for others who need them; I know that will give me joy.